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Welcome to the Selfish Giver blog! If you’re used to taking care of everyone else, except yourself, you’re in the right place.

Here, we focus on a different approach to health for nurses & moms. One that focuses on rest, supports your nervous system, & makes feeling better simple and doable. And dare we say it, enjoyable even.


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Stop the Spiral

Many of our thoughts are old and habitual, and many of these thoughts were placed into our brains long ago in childhood. But do they help us feel good in our brain and body today? This post walks you through a simple process to break the spiral and replace old thoughts with ones that serve you.

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Change Your Life

I wasn’t actually doing much with all the knowledge about health I’d gained. There were many days where I felt overwhelmed with the amount of information available. Information overload led to paralysis in actually taking action toward getting healthy. That’s where a Coaching program came in to help me get started.

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My 100th Pure Barre Class

I stopped working out over a decade after years of being a competitive swimmer at the Division I level. I finally found my way to Pure Barre Studios. After finishing 100 classes, here are some lessons learned on motivation, thoughts, and visions of strength as I age.

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Getting Healthy Again In Your 40's Is Possible

Feeling better and getting healthy doesn’t have to be this giant, time consuming project. You are a working momma with things to do. But we can start to feel better by letting go of “health is hard,” and focus on taking one step at a time.

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